what if scenario

after everything has gone down,you and whoever u live with now
were unable to move locations,ur held up in your house,thier has been raiding group in the area taking everything they wanted,raping woman,trading kids for goods,or killing them all togther
one day out of the blue you get shot out side
the gun shot is going to be fatal,you and ur loved one/ones are in the house defending your position you dont have much time before you pass
what would you do or say to your loved one knowing your dying and they well be left with just themselves<girlfrien,wife,fiance,kids> to survive

I'd say, give them hell and don't let them take you alive.

I would tell them what to load into a daypack and explain to them to use the cover of darkness to make it to a family members house in town.

Hopefully once they made it there they could come back to my place (in force) for payback and to take the rest of my gear.